Crushes...

I'm ready to have those again.
Just wish the past would stay in the past and not keep resurfacing.

Signs

• his ex calls him all the time and he tells you, "no, we were good friends before so..." and constantly defends talking to her so much
• when you hang out with his friends, they offer him drugs and he turns them down to their great surprise
• you meet a sibling for the first time and all they can talk about is how awful the previous girlfriend was
• on your first major holiday together, he leaves you feverish, severely ill and alone because his family doesn't want you around because they want it to be "just family"
• you have to be rushed to the emergency room for an injury, and the dude visits a record store to pick up something before coming to be with you
• he talks about marriage, kids, future...but can't seem to ever wake up on time to go with you to visit your parents 

So...

Are moms the new girlfriends?

Why do dudes want to be taken care of instead of spreading their wings and working to stand on their own?

Why does it seem that a guy would rather have a mom-girlfriend or mom-wife instead of equal partner?

How can a grown man feel ok and still be living under the same roof as his mom?

She's washing your stained sheets, doing all of your dishes, buying you groceries, making your food, buying you clothes, cleaning up after you...and you're OK with this!

Man, I swear I'd give up some women's rights if these guys could step the fuck up.